I'm feeling really good today, three weeks after my surgery. I'm still dealing with the ups and downs of swelling. Yesterday was an up, today is a down and I woke up swollen. However, that is all a part of the process and I took update photos anyway! I'm definitely still wearing the chin strap while sleeping and then again during the day if my chin is feeling "tired" and in need of some support. I've put on makeup several times and headed out to run errands or do some shopping. I can't turn my head very well, so I'm very careful when driving and using my mirrors a LOT, but I still feel very comfortable driving now. This was me on Saturday at Christopher & Banks ... the saleslady wanted a "twinning" picture for their Facebook page. I loved that I HAVE NO DOUBLE CHIN in this photo - woo-hoo!!!
Monday, October 26, 2020
Face Lift - Week 3 PO
Thursday, October 22, 2020
Face Lift - 17 days po
Monday, October 19, 2020
Face Lift - 2 weeks post-op
I can't believe it's been two weeks since I had surgery!! I am feeling really good. I still have lingering swelling, tightness and numbness, but that is all to be expected. My neck still has some deep bruising and a couple of lumpy areas (you can see that in pic below) which my doctor says will heal with time. I follow-up with him on Thursday so he can check my neck and the incisions behind my ears (they are still scabbed over). The numbness is pretty much from ear to ear, chin to Adam's apple in a BIG triangle shape.
Let's get to the photos so you can see the difference two weeks can make! In the first picture, you can see the lingering swelling in my chin and neck (left side is the "after"). It'll be several months before most of the swelling goes down. At 4 months post-op, I'll get a good glimpse at my initial result with it talking a full YEAR for my final result to be apparent.
This is the difference between last Monday and today. You can see that all of the bruising on my chest (from the drainage of blood due to gravity) has disappeared for the most part. There is still some bruising you can't see because my shirt is covering it.
Having a facelift has been much more of an emotional journey than my tummy tuck surgery. I think that is because I can't hide my face with a pair of jeans if the surgery went wrong - LOL! I am a person that wants to look my best when I'm out in public, so it's hard to be swollen, bruised and not able to turn my neck fully. Patience is not something I am good at (just ask my husband!) so this is a more difficult recovery for me psychologically. However, I have to say that I have turned a corner at the 2-week mark because I feel comfortable going out in public at this stage.
I'll definitely post in another week with updated photos and thoughts on my journey!
Friday, October 16, 2020
Face Lift - Post Day 11
I can't believe it's already been almost 2 weeks since I had my surgery. My neck is still very lumpy and bumpy, swollen and tender. My chin line is swollen. A lot of the scabbing on my incisions is coming off and the line in front of my ears is looking VERY good! I'm now putting SkinMedica Scar Recovery Gel on my incisions twice daily. This will help with the healing process. I've also bought some medical grade silicone scar strips to put on my chin incision which is hard and lumpy. My incision sites often recover with a lot of hard scar tissue under the skin and the silicone strips helped with my tummy tuck incision so I'm doing it again. If the hard ridge doesn't go down in a reasonable amount of time like 6 months, then I'll talk to Dr. Hall about possible laser treatments that can help.
Here are two pictures from today when Jim and I went to early voting. The bottom picture shows a bit more of the swelling still in my neck. My neck is also still bruised so I had to cover it with make up today. So glad my hair is also long enough to cover most of it - lol! However, I am extremely happy with how I look today and it is only going to get better!
I'll post more pics on Monday at my 2-week mark. I am pretty sure the swelling continues to go down each day and there will be even more of a difference to share with you!
Tuesday, October 13, 2020
Face Lift - Post Day 8
I wasn't going to post for another week, but I had a breakthrough in my swelling and thought it was interesting enough to share today! Overnight, a LOT of swelling went away leaving me with a more defined chin line and less puffy cheeks - woo-hoo!
I am happy that the swelling is working its way out. My chin felt "funny" all day yesterday, sorta tingly and whatever, so maybe it was working its magic!
Monday, October 12, 2020
Face Lift - One Week
One week has flown by and I actually feel fairly normal today. I'm still swollen and I have to wear the chin sling for one more week all day long. I'm not sure it's helping anything at this point, but I will follow my doctor's orders! My bruising is still EVERYWHERE, but improving. No pain or discomfort at all, just tenderness where my bruising is. My incisions are healing nicely and I start using SkinMedica scar gel today on the ones in front of my ears and chin.
I think this photo shows that I look more refreshed and less "tired." I'm pretty sure things won't change much when the swelling goes down a bit more. I am REALLY happy with this comparison photo!
These photos compare post op Days 4 and 7. I'm still swollen and bruised, but it is all lessening. I'm not going to take any photos again until next week so I can compare a week's worth of healing.
So, that's where I am today. I can't wait until I can move my neck more. It is really tight and stiff because everything has been pulled so much. I have a short neck anyway - lol! I'll update again in a week unless anything happens of note that I feel is worth journaling!
Sunday, October 11, 2020
Face Lift - Post Op Day 6
It's kinda hard to believe that it's been almost a week since my surgery! Jim finally shared these photos of me in pre-op where Dr. Hall had marked up my face with his plan for me.
My double chin is GONE, so now I just need to continue to heal .... my incisions are looking good for the most part. The areas behind my ears are still weeping a bit while I sleep so we are taking great care to keep them covered with gauze pads that absorb any fluid so that I don't get any skin breakdown.
I had an emotional day yesterday and the "What the crap did I do?" question reared its ugly head. All of the info out there says the swelling should start declining around post op day 4/5 and I haven't had much swelling disappear yet. Of course, everyone heals differently and I am on my own journey so I've gotta remember not to compare myself to others. While I would love to be one of the people who can put on some makeup two weeks after surgery and head out, I don't think that is going to be the case.
Someone in a Facelift Facebook group I joined shared that it really takes about six MONTHS before I will get a preview of my final result. So, I'm setting that as my new goal because I believe it is more in line with what I am experiencing. However, I do hope that I will be able to head out at some point in another week or so once I don't have to wear the compression sling 24/7. Fall is my favorite season and I do want to get back to walking so will probably pick that back up at the 2-week post op mark.
I'm looking forward to getting this next week behind me so that I don't have to wear the sling all the time. Other than that, I feel pretty normal today. The constant throbbing in my cheeks is gone and I'm happy about that!
Saturday, October 10, 2020
Face Lift - Post Op Day 5
I had all of my stitches taken out yesterday and only had one small area behind my ear where the skin wasn't healed together. So, Jim will be taking care of that area and I go back in 2 weeks for Dr. Hall to check things out to make sure all is healed up. My swelling should start to go down this weekend and continue to improve each day. I'm already tired of the compression sling and I have about 10 more days of wearing it 24/7. I've decided to give myself a small break from it each morning so that I can enjoy drinking my coffee!
Sleeping on my back while elevating my head is annoying the crap out of me. I snore if I'm on my back so I'm awake a lot because I am conscious that I am snoring! I can try to sleep on my side while elevated sometime next week, but I already tested that and it is NOT comfortable AT ALL. Hopefully, the days will go by quickly and I'll be sleeping in my normal side position before I know it.
I've started to feel a shock/twinge here and there in my chin which means the nerves are coming back. I have no idea how much of my neck will remain numb. I still have a large section of my abdomen numb from my tummy tuck 3 years ago, so I do expect to have areas of my face with no feeling to them. Those areas feel so heavy, like there is a block of concrete attached to my face. Dr. Hall describes the feeling like that heaviness you feel in your mouth when it gets numbed to fix a cavity and that is EXACTLY how it feels!
As of yesterday, I am not feeling any pain. I just feel pressure where the muscles have been pulled tight. Jim has been the BEST through all of this. He has taken over all that I usually do during the week and will continue to do so until I can go out without my compression sling on. He goes back to work next week, but the boys are home and can help take dogs out. I'm trying to avoid the neighbors seeing me in my sling if I can! LOL!
All in all, it's not even been a full week and I'm feeling good and am not regretting my decision to have the surgery. I'm very anxious to see my face without all of the swelling and the waiting is killing me. I am not a very patient person!!
Friday, October 9, 2020
New Home Updates
We moved into our new home in February and we've spent the last few months updating the house to make it more our own. So, I thought it was time for another house tour where I can share the updates/changes that we have made. You can view how the home looked when we first moved in here.
The big change is that we have painted all main level walls Sherwin Williams' Natural Linen. It is our favorite color and really unifies the space since it is the only color used throughout. We had new windows and garage doors installed as both were sorely needed since the house is 14 years old. This picture shows the AFTER (on the top) once we added new windows, new garage doors and removed some of the vinyl railing from the front porch. (The BEFORE is on the bottom). Our first and second floors have over 3000 sq. feet of living space, so this is a pretty big home, but the layout keeps it cozy and inviting and it doesn't really feel as big as it truly is.
FOYER
LIVING ROOM
LIBRARY
(was previously a dining room)
KITCHEN/PANTRY (originally a 1/2 bath)
LAUNDRY ROOM
MASTER BEDROOM
MASTER BATHROOM
FRONT PORCH
BACK PORCHES
BACKYARD VIEWS
UPSTAIRS LANDING
CRAFT ROOM (LOFT)
BONUS ROOM
UPSTAIRS BATH & STORAGE CLOSET
Well, that is the tour of our home! You can view how it looked when we first moved in here. This is our final home - it is perfect in every way for the both of us. I got the space I was wanting and Jim got his mountain views. Although we have a 2nd floor, everything we need is on the main floor and that was something we both wanted. I feel so lucky to have found this home for us to live in for the rest of our days!